"How
do I get experience if no one will hire me?"
It's a question that I
hear quite often amongst the military spouse community. Blue Star
Families’ Military Lifestyle Survey consistently identifies employment
as a top concern for military families. Challenges to obtaining
employment may be attributed to frequent moves, lack of affordable,
quality childcare, and attending to family obligations when the military
member is deployed, on temporary duty assignment, or working
unconventional hours. Employers may be cautious about hiring a military
spouse because he or she may only be in the area short term, and/or need
a lot of time away to attend to childcare needs and family
obligations.
This conundrum is frustrating, primarily because it’s part of a
vicious circle: if you don't have experience you won't get hired, and if
you don't get hired, you don't get the experience. How does one
circumvent this cycle? One possible solution might be strategic
volunteering. Volunteering your time in the areas you want to grow
provides a venue to develop the skills you desire while benefiting an
organization or cause that you are passionate about.
Volunteering opportunities are plentiful. Moms can volunteer for PTA
and fundraisers. If you attend church, you can volunteer with young and
old, and provide meals to those in need. Military spouses can help his
or her base Spouses Club, which raises money for scholarships for
military kids. The possibilities are endless. Be careful, though: if you
say yes to every opportunity, you will eventually burn out and spend a
lot of time doing things that do not interest you. Instead, choose
volunteer roles with a strategic focus in mind, increasing your skills
and sparking your passion.
Strategic volunteering is the act of intentionally seeking to
volunteer in areas you want to improve or grow. If you want to work on
your email marketing, volunteer to take on the PTA newsletter. If you
want to be a better baker, manage the bake sale at school. If you want
to work on your public speaking, be the president of the women's group
at church. For me personally, volunteering helped me start my business
and even secure my business partner. I improved my project management,
web development and design skills through volunteering for the military
base Spouses Club. I became quicker and more elaborate in my design.
Also, my business partner was the President of the Spouses Club, and I
watched her eloquently lead meetings and inspire others to rally behind a
vision. I am grateful for that year of volunteering, because it has set
my business partner and I up to work together in a strong partnership.
In addition to the experience and skills you gain, strategic
volunteering can be a huge asset to your resume. While you may not have
been paid for the skills you learned during your volunteer hours, you
earned them and can apply them to any job in the future. Volunteering
also helps to increase your network and polish your resume. No matter
what season of life you are in, you can always grow and learn where you
are planted by making wise choices with your time and opportunities.